Divorce and Depression
Dealing with a divorce is never easy. As much as the two parties involved might agree that separation is necessary, and even look forward to remaining close friends, feelings of loss and doubt are simply unavoidable. Even if the marriage itself was unhappy, you may after the fact find yourself only able to see “the good times,” often leading to such wrenching questions as, “Why did it have to happen?” and “Will I ever have memories and moments like that again?”
As powerful as the comfort of friends, family, and hopeful thinking can be, some people are simply more prone to being emotionally affected by these painful memories and questions than others. Depression is a complex disorder that affects millions of Americans, and one frequently triggered by a split of this nature. The end of a loving relationship might be the first time a person has ever experienced depression. Conversely, it may be the very result of one or both partner’s lifelong and deep-seated personal struggle with the disorder.
While simply deeming depression a “chemical imbalance” is a dangerously simplistic way of viewing things, there is no question that the external events of our lives impact how we think and what we think of, which in turn influences our body’s hormonal response. Moreover, our family history can play a huge role both in how we feel and behave during a relationship and our response once it is over.
Depression can manifest itself in countless forms, ranging from chronic indecision or restlessness to anger issues and apathy. Further complicating matters, in a relationship, the symptoms of depression can be easily mistaken as simply being “human nature.” Fortunately, there are treatment options available for depression and medical professionals who are ready to help. It is important not let an irrational fear of emotional problems interfere with your important life decisions.
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If you or someone you know is considering divorce, it is important to seek the advice of an experienced attorney. Contact the San Jose divorce lawyers of the Law Office of Daniel Jensen P.C. today at 408-296-4100.
