Leaving an Abusive Relationship

San Jose Domestic Violence Lawyer

Leaving an Abusive Relationship

Leaving a physically or emotionally abusive relationship may be one of the most important decisions of your life. Statistics show, however, that is can also be a dangerous period of time; domestic violence often escalates when the victim begins to regain control of his or her life, especially if that means leaving the relationship.

Fortunately, there are many ways to protect yourself and your children, if you have any, when leaving an abusive spouse. Here are a few tips that can help you reduce the risks you face:

• Plan ahead. If you are leaving your home, try to make arrangements ahead of time about where you will stay. Pick a time to leave when your spouse will not be present. You may want to have a packed bag ready ahead of time so you can simply grab it and leave.
• Bring everything you need. Of course you may not want to be loaded down with things when leaving, but there are certain things you will need to take: a change of clothes, your social security card and passport if you have one, and any medications you take regularly.
• If you have children, plan with them before you go. Make sure that your children know their job is to stay safe, not to worry about you.
• If you share a joint checking account with your spouse, close it. You do not want him or her to take out all of the money.

Speak with a San Jose Domestic Violence Attorney

If you have questions about the legal issues surrounding abuse and divorce, contact San Jose domestic violence attorney Daniel Jensen at 408-296-4100.